Tag: Law of Attraction

What if the definition of a good Partnership and marriage was,”not having a definition of it at all”?

What if the definition of a good Partnership and marriage was,”not having a definition of it at all”?

I have been contemplating a lot on this for the last few months. Asking the Source a lot of questions regarding what true partnership, relationship means.

A while back I came to this awareness. A partner/husband/wife is not supposed to be the source of joy in our lives. The concept of marriage was created by society for many reasons (economical, biological, lineal).
And we have created so many beliefs and points of view around marriage and intimate relationship
which has nothing to do with creating a joyous partnership/relationship/intimacy.

We have been taught and conditioned to believe that we have to mate for life. A faulty premise to begin with. We can choose to do so of course. But the fact that we have been conditioned to believe,that if we don’t have that something is wrong with us or we are not good enough. What Hogwash!

Little girls are made to believe that they can fulfill their purpose on earth only when they have given birth to a child or children ,experienced motherhood, married, settled down so to speak (not in the exact order of what I just typed here). Where is the choice in that? How many of you have made yourself wrong, faulty, not good enough because you haven’t accomplished that yet or having done that, you still don’t feel fulfilled?

How many boys have been conditioned to believe that their true worth lies in being a ‘provider’, the strong manly archetype who goes to work at wee hours of the morning, is the breadwinner of the family, and is meant to be the strong and silent one. How many men are being shown by example he is not meant to be nurturing, or emotionally communicative?

We learn that a good relationship means spending an expected amount of time in each others company. That if you or your partner doesn’t do that, something is wrong with your relationship. We come to believe if you both don’t like and enjoy the same things you ain’t compatible. How many have come to believe that ending a relationship that doesn’t seem to be working is a sing of your failure?

There are so many programmings each and everyone is operating from.

What if relationships could be anything that we wanted it to be? What if the partner wasn’t supposed to be the one to fill our cup of joy? What if we are the ones who get to choose what fills our cup and we are the ones responsible for our happiness? What if one person wasn’t supposed to be all the colors in the fabric of our experiences? What if we chose to let go of the expected notions of what makes a marriage/relationship good or bad? What if we were the ones who got to choose what the right relationship looks like for us? What if we got to choose a relationship did not maketh or breaketh our life?

What if you were the one who got to choose an absolute new construct of the dynamics and interplay of your intimate relationship? What if you were to know that your life is an ongoing creation? That nothing needs to be defined or decided based on forever and a lifetime? That you are creating your experiences, be it with relationships – intimate or otherwise, with money, with time, with everything that is the fabric of your life, moment by moment with the choices you are making in your beliefs and in your perspectives?

And the truth is that you can choose differently, you can choose anew, you can choose to receive. The journey starts with you. It starts with the awareness of who you truly are- Energy being inhabiting this body. You have a choice to acknowledge that truth for yourself and begin playing with the energy that you are and receive infinite possibilities that the Source would love to help you receive.

What possibilities would you like to experience in your life? In your relationships? With money? In your health? With your body?

I leave you here to reflect and expand your awareness if you choose to do so. Why not ask the Universe “What else is possible?”

If you wish to explore this awareness more, let’s come together. I would love to assist you with some new tools to do just that.

Love and Blessings

Dilpreet

Law of Attraction is way of Life. Not just a tool for random manifestations.

A lot of people find their way to Law of Attraction and the tools of mindset hacks. But very few of them are using it consistently. Growth and change come only with practice. It comes through a series of choices you make every single day, every single moment.

Law of Attraction is not just a tool. It’s a way of life. If you want your life to change, adopt a LOA lifestyle. Just like you wake up, brush your teeth, eat, move your body in some form each day, similarly you’ve got to choose to live Law of Attraction by practicing the tools that come with it every single day, every single moment.

The basic premise of Law of Attraction is “What you give attention to, you attract”. Let me add a little more to this. What you choose to give attention to in your thoughts most of the time, you attract as experiences in your reality. This is still not the entire premise of Law of Attraction. Most of us have been so conditioned in our thoughts and beliefs that we have several programming of beliefs running on autopilot in the background that we are barely aware of. That is what becomes our predominant vibration. Years and years of thinking and feeling and believing based on your programming.

To change that dominant vibration, you’ve got to choose a new thought, a new belief every day, moment by moment. It takes time beautiful soul.

The most important premise of Law of Attraction that “The Secret” forgets to mention and lay emphasis on is this “You are an infinite being, the non-physical energy focused in this physical body. You are an infinite being. You are not just this body. You are partnering with this body, a body you, the infinite being, chose for a higher purpose.”

The energy that you are creates. The energy that you are is consciousness. “You” are a a fragment of the God Source energy, the One true Source. Call It God if you will. Call It Universe if you want. Call It Higher Power if you choose. You are more than you have chosen to believe of yourself, to know of yourself, to be aware. The energy that you are, creates because your thoughts have power, it is energy after all.

Try this sometime. Sit down somewhere for a few minutes. Close your eyes and choose to connect with ‘yourself’. Let your consciousness slowly expand. Let your awareness expand. Reach out beyond the edges of your physical body. Let the awareness expand through the physical space you are in. Let it expand beyond the four walls, beyond the city, beyond time and space. Allow yourself to experience the infiniteness of who you are.

The more you come to realize the truth of who you are, the more innately you will begin to understand Law of Attraction. It will take practice. It will require a willingness to take several leaps of faith. I know this though. If you truly choose it every moment, you are definitely going to create beautiful shifts in your life.

The Universe loves you immensely. There are infinite possibilities awaiting you.

Why not ask the Source/Universe “What else is possible? Show me the way to it Universe.

A few books that I would like to share with you on the topic of Law of Attraction and mindset shifts are below. This is to get you started and deepen your understanding of the Law of Attraction.

I also facilitate Group Book Study on some of these books, connect with me if you wish to register for our upcoming one.

You Can Heal Your Life by Louise. L. Hay.

The Law Of Attraction: The Basics of the Teachings of Abraham

Ask and It Is Given: Learning to Manifest Your Desires

Money,and the Law of Attraction: Learning to Attract Wealth, Health, and Happiness 

What is my life purpose?

What is my life purpose?
I have been asked that question so many times and I really started contemplating on it and a voice in me answered ” Life purpose isn’t a single act in a single direction. It’s in every moment and in every action.

What if your life purpose today was the patient conversation you had with the cab driver who just needed a few words of positive upliftment?


What if you fulfilled a life purpose when you posted a message close to your heart that inspired someone and made them feel heard and seen?


What if you fulfilled a life purpose when you adopted a puppy who needed someone to love it?
What if you fulfilled a life purpose by sharing your joy with another?


What if you fulfilled a life purpose by helping someone raise and provide for street dogs?
What if you fulfilled a life purpose when you inspired a friend to write a book?


What if you are fulfilling a life purpose by sharing your gift with even a few each day?
What if you fulfilled a life purpose when you helped your mother in her household chores?


What if you fulfilled a life purpose with these words you write right now and it touches a chord in just one heart?
What if your life purpose is only about you living each moment in full awareness, deep kindness and being willing to share your joy?

Your soul’s vision

WE are energy. Our soul is a transcendental living entity that chooses our physical body as an extension of itself, over a lifetime on this earth.
Have you stopped to think that you are more than just skin and bones and internal organs? You are the soul that resides in this body. The energy, i.e your soul and it’s essence, chose to undertake this physical journey to experience the physical dimension and all the variety it has to offer.
Our souls vision roots from the very core of our being and blossoms into the best versions of ourselves, our purpose, our true sense of happiness and belonging.While searching for its true purpose, its vision of what’s ideal, goes above and beyond our version of the connotations of these terms.
Your soul had a vision of what life on earth would mean to it. It wanted to explore all possibilities, all the variety and experiences this physical plane had to offer and most importantly enjoy the physical journey. But once the child was born, it was conditioned to slowly forget that personal truth. You began to accept the limitations your parents and society at large placed on you.
If you are here reading this, you are beginning to remember your soul’s truth. It still might be blurry but deep down you are questioning your life as it is now and you are searching for a meaning, a vision that is seeking you as much as you are seeking it.

One might wonder why some enlighted men like Gautam Buddha or Jesus Christ chose to live a life of suffering when they could easily choose otherwise. It was their soul’s vision, their true purpose in life that led them to their path and now millions follow. Well, now we know better!

I have for the past 14 years walked this path of remembering my life purpose and remembering my soul’s truth. And I created Your Soul’s Vision to guide you through your journey back to your soul’s truth too. It is my desire to remind you and assist you to recall that vision and lovingly hold that vision with you, for you, as you come into alignment with it. For I know that you can and you will get there eventually.

On your journey to Your Soul’s Vision you’ll learn to understand learn and master the Laws of Attraction and understand the power of your thoughts and emotions. I believe the key to knowing your soul’s truth and manifesting the vision lies in accessing deep self love and I would love to show you the path, for I have walked a path of unlearning so many limiting beliefs and conditioning and discovered the beauty of learning to love myself unconditionally. It has not only helped me release layers of conditioning and discover who I really am, it has transformed my life in all aspects be it relationships, money, success and anything else you can imagine.

If you are ready to take back your Power and live life in deep authenticity and joy, then we must connect and co create your soul’s vision.

Blessed Be!

Our belief system goes much deeper than we realise. Oh and contrasts are really opportunities to learn from.

Do you know that your belief system, your thought patterns and emotional traumas began even before you were born? Right when you were in the womb? And even before that?

I have been doing a lot of inner work lately in preparation to move into the next level in my life in various areas really. And my knee started acting up a while back. So I decided to sit with it.
As I connected with my body, I received a few downloads of thoughts (that’s the best I can describe it). I understood that the child in me is scared of all the expectations I have of life. She feels they won’t be met and that will create more disappointment. So she was being stubborn about not moving ahead and the knee issues were her way of letting me know. I decided to dig a little deeper. Go with that awareness so to speak and see where it takes me. I suddenly felt my head aching terribly. The two sides of the head felt a pressure and I felt I was being dragged into something or somewhere through a narrow opening. I distanced my consciousness and looked at what I was feeling and I see myself as a baby being pulled through the birth canal. There was something gripping my head on the sides and dragging me out into the new. I felt I wasn’t ready, I felt violated, I felt angry and I wanted to scream at everyone. That I realised was my birth experience.

I returned back to myself after a while of some more exploration. I called my mother and asked her if something was used to pull me out at birth. Turns out I was a forceps baby  And I took hours to arrive.

After this learning, in the last few days, a few more physical symptoms showed up, like my wrist acting up. Now as I choose to be present with all that I am feeling in my body and become truly aware of what I am feeling, I am learning more about my beliefs. And this is after 12 years of continuous inner work and discoveries. There is always a contrast that shows up and that which we can learn from.

It is how we perceive these experiences and choose to show up that decides the path.
This shows to me over and over again, evidence after another, that we are not just this physical body. We are so much more. And if you choose to be present to all parts of you, you can experience deep healing and create a positive momentum for your own growth.

What are you choosing?

Do you feel you are not good enough sometimes,just the way I do?

I have done a lot of inner work. Trust me. A lot. From someone who could barely speak up for herself to this confident, deeply in love with herself woman, I have come a long way.

Yet there are rare days that I feel I am not good enough. Of late I have been working on giving myself permission to go big on my dreams. I have so much to share about my journey and I want to reach out to a massive amount of people out there and inspire them to dream big and manifest those dreams too. And the fact that I just said this out loud on a social media platform for you all to read scares the s*** out of me. But hey atleast I am allowing myself to share my desires with the Universe. Universe, I trust that you are reading this too😁

And for a while now, a part of me is acting up. I can hear a voice in me say “Hey but what can you say, that hasn’t been already said? There are so many inspiring people out there. What do you have to say that they already haven’t said?” And it shakes me up, this voice.

But that’s the part of showing up even with your fears. Fears and doubts do show up, in their endeavour to protect you, to keep you in the known space, protecting you from the threat and danger of the unknown. I choose to see it for what it is. And I choose to walk ahead with it and despite it. I choose to thank it for trying to protect me. But the fact is that I don’t need it’s protection. There is no threat out there. Except the voice in my head ofcourse.

I choose to tune out the voice that says I am not good enough. Today I just choose to crank up the volume of the voice in my head that says ” Dilpreet get out there and write whatever you are feeling. You may just inspire someone with the message you have to share. Even if you don’t, you are good enough because you just showed up for yourself”. I love hearing this voice so I am going to just increase its volume for the time being I think.

As for you, sit with this message and really be willing to hear this and feel this – You are more than that voice in you that says you are not good enough. Don’t let that voice decide your choices for you. Speak up. Write. Dance. Share your voice, yourself, your message, in whatever form you want to and know that you are good enough. You are worthy enough. You deserve to shine. Your story, your words have the potential to inspire plenty out there.. Your dreams are important and when you choose to truly deeply believe in them, they show up in your reality. I know this to be true for the dreams I dreamt yesterday are a part of my today. I know that the dreams I am dreaming today are meant to be.

For now I take joy in having showed up here, for having expressed myself.

How are you choosing to show up for yourself today?

Life can be easy if you choose it.

I recently attended a few events which had speakers come up and talk about their lives and how they overcame so much. Its inspiring to see people do that.

I also see a trend of putting struggle and hard work on a pedestal. Most individuals believe and propagate the belief that life is meant to be hard and difficult and full of struggles and only those who propagate the same are really seen as true heroes and an inspiration. I believe in something different now. I believe that life can be easy. Just like any other belief that we carry in our subconscious mind,that we have accepted as the truth, this is just another perception. A perception or a belief is a thought we have thought over and over and over.

So it goes to say that I can replace this old belief with a new one, if I really choose to. I for one have chosen to make the rest of my life, the best of my life. I have decided to have an easy life. I do not say no to struggle and difficulty and hard work. I just choose to say Yes to ease, joy and glory.

I choose to be inspired by people who are choosing the same. Its seems to me that when we are choosing to believe that life is hard and we are overcoming it all by sheer will of our determination, we are trying to prove ourselves to the world and the Universe. But the truth is the Universe already adores me and each one of us just the way we are, by the virtue of the fact that we exist.

And if we are responsible for our own lives and our own happiness, then who are we really trying to prove ourselves to? We are only trying to prove our worthiness to ourselves. And the truth is we already are worthy and deserving. It’s time now we accepted this truth.

We deserve an easy, fun filled, happy life. Each one of you. Let’s release the belief and the story of struggle and hard work and pain, and in it’s place let’s be willing to love ourselves and know we are worthy of ease and fun and happiness.

Let’s inspire others with our stories that are filled with ease, and magnificence and fun. Let’s inspire one person at a time by living our own lives with ease first. Those who are ready to create ease in their life will take their inspiration when needed.

What are you choosing as your life story?