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What if the definition of a good Partnership and marriage was,”not having a definition of it at all”?

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What if the definition of a good Partnership and marriage was,”not having a definition of it at all”?

I have been contemplating a lot on this for the last few months. Asking the Source a lot of questions regarding what true partnership, relationship means.

A while back I came to this awareness. A partner/husband/wife is not supposed to be the source of joy in our lives. The concept of marriage was created by society for many reasons (economical, biological, lineal).
And we have created so many beliefs and points of view around marriage and intimate relationship which has nothing to do with creating a joyous partnership/relationship/intimacy.

We have been taught and conditioned to believe that we have to mate for life. A faulty premise to begin with. We can choose to do so of course. But the fact that we have been conditioned to believe,that if we don’t have that something is wrong with us or we are not good enough. What Hogwash!

Little girls are made to believe that they can fulfill their purpose on earth only when they have given birth to a child or children ,experienced motherhood, married, settled down so to speak (not in the exact order of what I just typed here). Where is the choice in that? How many of you have made yourself wrong, faulty, not good enough because you haven’t accomplished that yet or having done that, you still don’t feel fulfilled?

How many boys have been conditioned to believe that their true worth lies in being a ‘provider’, the strong manly archetype who goes to work at wee hours of the morning, is the breadwinner of the family, and is meant to be the strong and silent one. How many men are being shown by example he is not meant to be nurturing, or emotionally communicative?

We learn that a good relationship means spending an expected amount of time in each others company. That if you or your partner doesn’t do that, something is wrong with your relationship. We come to believe if you both don’t like and enjoy the same things you ain’t compatible. How many have come to believe that ending a relationship that doesn’t seem to be working is a sing of your failure?

There are so many programmings each and everyone is operating from.

What if relationships could be anything that we wanted it to be? What if the partner wasn’t supposed to be the one to fill our cup of joy? What if we are the ones who get to choose what fills our cup and we are the ones responsible for our happiness? What if one person wasn’t supposed to be all the colors in the fabric of our experiences? What if we chose to let go of the expected notions of what makes a marriage/relationship good or bad? What if we were the ones who got to choose what the right relationship looks like for us? What if we got to choose a relationship did not maketh or breaketh our life?

What if you were the one who got to choose an absolute new construct of the dynamics and interplay of your intimate relationship? What if you were to know that your life is an ongoing creation? That nothing needs to be defined or decided based on forever and a lifetime? That you are creating your experiences, be it with relationships – intimate or otherwise, with money, with time, with everything that is the fabric of your life, moment by moment with the choices you are making in your beliefs and in your perspectives?

And the truth is that you can choose differently, you can choose anew, you can choose to receive. The journey starts with you. It starts with the awareness of who you truly are- Energy being inhabiting this body. You have a choice to acknowledge that truth for yourself and begin playing with the energy that you are and receive infinite possibilities that the Source would love to help you receive.

What possibilities would you like to experience in your life? In your relationships? With money? In your health? With your body?

I leave you here to reflect and expand your awareness if you choose to do so. Why not ask the Universe “What else is possible?”

If you wish to explore this awareness more, let’s come together. I would love to assist you with some new tools to do just that.

Love and Blessings

Dilpreet

Law of Attraction is way of Life. Not just a tool for random manifestations.

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A lot of people find their way to Law of Attraction and the tools of mindset hacks. But very few of them are using it consistently. Growth and change come only with practice. It comes through a series of choices you make every single day, every single moment.

Law of Attraction is not just a tool. It’s a way of life. If you want your life to change, adopt a LOA lifestyle. Just like you wake up, brush your teeth, eat, move your body in some form each day, similarly you’ve got to choose to live Law of Attraction by practicing the tools that come with it every single day, every single moment.

The basic premise of Law of Attraction is “What you give attention to, you attract”. Let me add a little more to this. What you choose to give attention to in your thoughts most of the time, you attract as experiences in your reality. This is still not the entire premise of Law of Attraction. Most of us have been so conditioned in our thoughts and beliefs that we have several programming of beliefs running on autopilot in the background that we are barely aware of. That is what becomes our predominant vibration. Years and years of thinking and feeling and believing based on your programming.

To change that dominant vibration, you’ve got to choose a new thought, a new belief every day, moment by moment. It takes time beautiful soul.

The most important premise of Law of Attraction that “The Secret” forgets to mention and lay emphasis on is this “You are an infinite being, the non-physical energy focused in this physical body. You are an infinite being. You are not just this body. You are partnering with this body, a body you, the infinite being, chose for a higher purpose.”

The energy that you are creates. The energy that you are is consciousness. “You” are a a fragment of the God Source energy, the One true Source. Call It God if you will. Call It Universe if you want. Call It Higher Power if you choose. You are more than you have chosen to believe of yourself, to know of yourself, to be aware. The energy that you are, creates because your thoughts have power, it is energy after all.

Try this sometime. Sit down somewhere for a few minutes. Close your eyes and choose to connect with ‘yourself’. Let your consciousness slowly expand. Let your awareness expand. Reach out beyond the edges of your physical body. Let the awareness expand through the physical space you are in. Let it expand beyond the four walls, beyond the city, beyond time and space. Allow yourself to experience the infiniteness of who you are.

The more you come to realize the truth of who you are, the more innately you will begin to understand Law of Attraction. It will take practice. It will require a willingness to take several leaps of faith. I know this though. If you truly choose it every moment, you are definitely going to create beautiful shifts in your life.

The Universe loves you immensely. There are infinite possibilities awaiting you.

Why not ask the Source/Universe “What else is possible? Show me the way to it Universe.

A few books that I would like to share with you on the topic of Law of Attraction and mindset shifts are below. This is to get you started and deepen your understanding of the Law of Attraction.

I also facilitate Group Book Study on some of these books, connect with me if you wish to register for our upcoming one.

You Can Heal Your Life by Louise. L. Hay.

The Law Of Attraction: The Basics of the Teachings of Abraham

Ask and It Is Given: Learning to Manifest Your Desires

Money,and the Law of Attraction: Learning to Attract Wealth, Health, and Happiness 

What is my life purpose?

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What is my life purpose?
I have been asked that question so many times and I really started contemplating on it and a voice in me answered ” Life purpose isn’t a single act in a single direction. It’s in every moment and in every action.

What if your life purpose today was the patient conversation you had with the cab driver who just needed a few words of positive upliftment?


What if you fulfilled a life purpose when you posted a message close to your heart that inspired someone and made them feel heard and seen?


What if you fulfilled a life purpose when you adopted a puppy who needed someone to love it?
What if you fulfilled a life purpose by sharing your joy with another?


What if you fulfilled a life purpose by helping someone raise and provide for street dogs?
What if you fulfilled a life purpose when you inspired a friend to write a book?


What if you are fulfilling a life purpose by sharing your gift with even a few each day?
What if you fulfilled a life purpose when you helped your mother in her household chores?


What if you fulfilled a life purpose with these words you write right now and it touches a chord in just one heart?
What if your life purpose is only about you living each moment in full awareness, deep kindness and being willing to share your joy?

Our belief system goes much deeper than we realise. Oh and contrasts are really opportunities to learn from.

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Do you know that your belief system, your thought patterns and emotional traumas began even before you were born? Right when you were in the womb? And even before that?

I have been doing a lot of inner work lately in preparation to move into the next level in my life in various areas really. And my knee started acting up a while back. So I decided to sit with it.
As I connected with my body, I received a few downloads of thoughts (that’s the best I can describe it). I understood that the child in me is scared of all the expectations I have of life. She feels they won’t be met and that will create more disappointment. So she was being stubborn about not moving ahead and the knee issues were her way of letting me know. I decided to dig a little deeper. Go with that awareness so to speak and see where it takes me. I suddenly felt my head aching terribly. The two sides of the head felt a pressure and I felt I was being dragged into something or somewhere through a narrow opening. I distanced my consciousness and looked at what I was feeling and I see myself as a baby being pulled through the birth canal. There was something gripping my head on the sides and dragging me out into the new. I felt I wasn’t ready, I felt violated, I felt angry and I wanted to scream at everyone. That I realised was my birth experience.

I returned back to myself after a while of some more exploration. I called my mother and asked her if something was used to pull me out at birth. Turns out I was a forceps baby  And I took hours to arrive.

After this learning, in the last few days, a few more physical symptoms showed up, like my wrist acting up. Now as I choose to be present with all that I am feeling in my body and become truly aware of what I am feeling, I am learning more about my beliefs. And this is after 12 years of continuous inner work and discoveries. There is always a contrast that shows up and that which we can learn from.

It is how we perceive these experiences and choose to show up that decides the path.
This shows to me over and over again, evidence after another, that we are not just this physical body. We are so much more. And if you choose to be present to all parts of you, you can experience deep healing and create a positive momentum for your own growth.

What are you choosing?